Of course it isn't. I didn't mean to suggest that it's ok. I guess when one gets old (73) and has made it thru years of other people's disapproval, you become immune to it. At this point I get a bit of revenge on those who are my own age and pulled that BS when younger.

I look about 15 years younger than 73. And have looked 15 years younger from the age of 35, when I got carded by waiters thinking I was too young to drink...

Funny thing. Fat faces don't wrinkle nearly as badly as skinny ones do!